Are you a young, free and single woman? Can you mingle bubble and shuffle? If you want to cross the motorway, beware! Else you may be knocked down by a hit and run driver.

The driver is that tall, athletic built, handsome chap in a top ranger designers' outfit, cruising a wonder-on-wheel automobile. He has gone mad, mean dangerous and heartless. His greatest joy is in increasing the membership of 'The Single Mothers Association'. His other stock in trade is to have a one-night fling, and then off he goes. His tongue is as sweet as vanilla ice cream. When it comes to smooth talking, politicians could not hold a candle to him. His looks and material acquisition makes girls flock around him like bees to nectar. He is a professional hit and run driver. After knocking down his victim, he disappears before she recovers enough to dial 999. To him, she is history, an addition to his list.

If his victim accidentally 'misses her period', too bad! She will be left without support, to lick her finger during and after the nine months course. She eventually gives birth to a child that will be catered for by the government, thus becoming a single parent.

Many girls have fallen victim, especially teenagers and single women in their 30's, because he is every woman's dream man, his victims easily fall in love, oblivious to the fact that he is the wrong man. Beware! He is out to kill. You find him everywhere in from London to Lagos, to New Yorl. He is like the biblical devil that walks about like a roaring lion seeking whom to devour.

A proverb has it that 'all that glitters is not gold'. When you learn to assess ones' character by their hearts and not just by the physical appearance, you will attract much more compatible and loving partners into your life.

The greatest mistake of the victims of the hit and run drivers is that, instead of focusing on the inner man and finding out all they can about him before they become sexually involved, they allow themselves to be seduced by looks and material things. The fat purse, state of the art cars, Versace suits, the high profile job, (if he actually has any), expensive habits and taste. Deduct these material things from his person and see what is left. He may be immature to make a commitment or sustain one. He may not even be the owner of those things you get so carried away with. He might be a man of small mind, one who is easily threatened. A man with a great mind talks about issues and ideas and can love, protect and provide for his family. A man of little mind cannot. His only topics of discussion are his looks, possessions, places visited and people he has met and known.

Going out with a man based on what he stands to offer you materially rather than emotionally, is a guaranteed way of being 'hit and run'. Yet the average lady prefers a 'businessman' who treats her like dirt, rather than an ordinary working class guy who treats her like a queen. These are the same girls complaining that there aren't any good men left. Good men are ignored everyday because they don't live loud lifestyles, hold prestigious jobs, have good apartments or brag about big bank accounts.

Look before you leap, least you be his next victim. He has no respect for you, but his money. His understanding is that you are with him because of his money. If you crave money and self-respect, go out and work. Afterall, this is the millennium. 'Girl Power'. Womanhood has been debased long enough. Put your efforts into restoring if. If you think your efforts can't make a difference, try going to bed with a mosquito.